Photos that look like you
Use clear, recent photos where your face is visible. One smile, one doing something you enjoy, one with friends where you're easy to spot. Avoid sunglasses in every shot, heavy filters and bathroom selfies.
Write something specific
'I love to travel and laugh' tells nobody anything. Instead, try 'Last trip was to Ghana for my cousin's wedding — next stop, Morocco for the food.' Specifics start conversations.
Say what you're actually looking for
If you want something serious, say it. If you have kids and they're part of your life, mention it. Honesty filters out mismatches early and attracts people who want the same thing.
Update it regularly
A stale profile suggests a stale user. Swap in a new photo every few months, refresh your prompts, and keep your bio current. Active profiles get shown more.